Book Review: Still Becoming by Krisheya’ Dawsey (a.k.a. blk butterfly)
Poetry is often meant to be heard rather than read. Its rhythm, tone, and emotion is better felt through spoken word. But in Still Becoming, Krisheya’ Dawsey, also known as blk butterfly, manages to go beyond the page. Her words speak directly to the soul, making this collection deeply relatable.
Dawsey’s poetry explores a wide range of themes such as relationships, mental and physical health, religion, social justice, and personal growth. All are written through the lens of her lived experience. This is not just a collection of poems, it’s a journey of transformation, resilience, and self-discovery.
One standout piece, Failed Connection, critiques our current reliance on technology and social media, illustrating how these tools have weakened genuine human connection. The following excerpt captures this perfectly:
“…vibes become extinct
Hiding behind keyboards and screens
One on one
Or personal engagement
All become obsolete”
This poem resonates in a world where face-to-face interactions are often replaced by curated online personas. Dawsey perfectly articulates the miscommunication that results from digital dependence.
The collection also tackles more sobering societal issues, such as systemic racism and police brutality. In one poem, Dawsey expresses the fear Black families feel for their children, regardless of age. Her words are honest and reflective of a reality that is both painful and persistent.
Another powerful section, A Cluttered Mind, deals with themes of burnout, chronic illness, and the toll of emotional labor. Here, Dawsey explores the tension between helping others and neglecting oneself. She reminds us of the importance of self-care and using our inner tools whether affirmations, memories, or anything to make us smile to heal ourselves.
The collection is divided into thoughtful sections including 7 Deadly Sins, Real Relationships, Stay Inspired, Dear Diary, and Thoughts After Midnight. Each offers a different facet of the author’s journey, allowing readers to connect with her on multiple levels. While her story is unique, her struggles and triumphs are universal. Dawsey turns pain into poetry, and hardship into hope.
Despite a few grammatical and spelling errors, the emotional impact of the work is undeniable. Dawsey’s writing serves as both testimony and encouragement. Her words are a quiet reminder that while we may not have it all figured out, we are still learning.
I'll leave you with another excerpt:
“And although
My Doubts tampered with my dreams
Each day brought on new things…
Blessings
I’m still breathing
Still learning
Still loving
…& still becoming”
Still Becoming is not a book to be rushed through. I made that mistake when I first picked up the book. Rather, it should be savored section by section, allowing space for reflection. Whether you're navigating your own transformation or simply seeking to understand someone else’s, this collection offers comfort, solidarity, and strength.
Rating: ★★★★☆
Where to Buy: Available now on Amazon. Be sure to share it with others. You never know who might need to hear these words.
